if its meant to be its up to me..

Hey All
I am adding to Raelenes quote with one I had been intending to post but didn't get round to with uni assignments and life...
This is really important..I remember how many times I have believed in my "spiritual thinking" that things were meant to be..I remember a fantastic scene in Everybody loves Raymond(TV) where the tall guy who is really funny keeps saying in an over-emphasized voice"it was Meant To Be".
I defintely would not wish to offend anybody, yet this was me in the past..meant to be..... I would love to hear anyones' take on this I am more than OK to be disagreed with ...
luv to all
maive